Masa remaja adalah masa di mana seseorang membentuk atau mulai membangun siapa dirinya atau jati dirinya.
Perbedaan masa kanak-kanak dengan masa remaja adalah:
a. Secara fisik anak remaja sudah mengalami beberapa perubahan hormonal misalkan munculnya hormon-hormon seksual yang membuat mereka itu menjadi makhluk atau menjadi manusia yang harus bergumul dengan gejolak seksualnya.
b. Mereka makin dewasa pola pikirnya bertambah abstrak, pola pikir ini membuat mereka mempertanyakan nilai-nilai yang mereka telah anut sebelumnya.
c. Para remaja juga mudah sekali mengikuti trend, mengikuti apa yang sedang 'in' di kalangan mereka. Dan mungkin sekali apa yang sedang 'in' atau trend itu tidak cocok dengan yang kita sukai akibatnya sering kali terjadi pertengkaran, membuat hubungan orang tua-anak sering kali tegang.
Yang dikatakan remaja, dipandang dari segi usia adalah anak usia sekitar 11 - 12 tahun hingga usia sekitar 20 tahun.
Sekurang-kurangnya ada 3 tahapan yang harus dilewati oleh seorang remaja:
1. Usia sekitar 12 - 14 tahun. Pada tahap ini pergumulan remaja biasanya berkaitan dengan penerimaan diri secara jasmaniah. Biasanya yang menjadi masalah adalah dia tidak menyukai bagian-bagian tubuhnya atau dia tidak bisa menerima dirinya apa adanya. Kegagalan untuk bisa menerima diri secara fisik, bisa membuahkan kekurangpercayaan diri.
2. Usia sekitar 15 - 18 tahun. Pada usia ini pergumulan remaja biasanya berkaitan dengan penerimaan lingkungan teman-temannya terhadap dirinya ini. Apakah teman-temannya bisa menerimanya sebagai seseorang yang masuk dalam kelompok mereka. Ini sering kali menjadi dilema buat kita sebagai orang tua, karena adakalanya kelompok anak akan memaksakan anak kita melakukan hal-hal yang kita tidak setujui. Nah kita harus berhati-hati dengan respons kita sebagai orang tua, adakalanya kita terlalu terburu-buru memisahkan anak dari lingkungannya sehingga anak itu tidak pernah benar-benar bergumul dengan tantangan yang ada di depannya atau ada anak yang justru kebalikannya terjun masuk ke dalam kelompoknya dan menanggalkan nilai-nilai supaya teman-teman bisa menerimanya.
3. Usia 19 tahun hingga 20 atau 21 tahun. Ini memang sudah tumpang tindih dengan tahapan dewasa awal, sebab memang transisinya masuk ke tahapan dewasa awal. Pergumulan remaja pada tahap ini berkisar pada kemampuan pribadinya membangun karier. Jadi pertanyaan-pertanyaan yang akan menjadi pergumulannya adalah mampukah saya masuk ke sekolah tertentu, mampukah saya masuk ke jurusan yang saya inginkan. Atau kalau dia ingin bekerja, mampukah saya memulai pekerjaan saya, mampu tidak saya meniti karier saya. Pada tahap ini ada 2 kata yang perlu diperhatikan oleh para remaja yaitu :
a. kata kemampuan dan
b. kata kesempatan
Tidak semua orang mempunyai kemampuan yang sama dan tidak seorang pun mempunyai kesempatan yang sama.
Ada tiga kemungkinan penyebab yang membuat remaja akhirnya menemui jalan buntu, dia tidak tahu mau sekolah apa.
a. Adakalanya remaja mempunyai kemampuan yang terlalu besar, banyak beragam, nah dia mungkin mengalami kebingungan mau pilih yang mana.
b. Dia tidak menyadari dia bisa apa, dia tidak tahu dia mampu di mana, sebab yang dia tahu semuanya dia tidak suka dan semuanya dia tidak bisa.
c. Kasus yang ketiga, dia sebetulnya tahu dia bisa apa, tapi dia bisa itu bukan hal yang dia sukai, karena dia menganggap yang dia bisa itu hal yang tidak dihormati atau hal yang tidak begitu dihargai oleh masyarakat atau yang dia bisa itu tidak bisa menghasilkan uang dengan cepat.
Dalam hal ini bimbingan orang tua yang sangat penting, bukan sekolah atau guru tapi orang tua dari sejak anak masih jauh lebih muda, jauh lebih kecil orang tua sudah mulai memantulkan pada anak apa yang menjadi bakat dan kemampuan si anak.
Peran kita sebagai orang tua adalah:
a. Orang tua harus mengenal anaknya dengan baik, sehingga dia bisa melihat anaknya itu dengan tepat. Kemampuannya apa, bisanya apa kira-kira pengarahan seperti apa.
b. Orang tua mesti memiliki hubungan yang baik dengan anak, ini penting sekali sebab mustahil anak mendengar orang tua kalau hubungannya dengan orang tua tidak positif. Hubungan yang baik juga adalah wadah di mana anak lebih berani untuk mengemukakan pergumulannya, ketidakbahagiaannya, ketertekanannya, penderitaannya.
c. Si anak juga mesti mempunyai hubungan yang baik dengan Tuhan, jadi bukan saja orang tua kenal anak dengan baik, orang tua dekat dengan anak, tapi si anak perlu dekat dengan Tuhan, itu bekal yang sangat penting sekali, tanpa itu tidak bisa maju.
Bagi remaja yang perlu dilakukan adalah:
a. Berdamai, berdamai pertama dengan keterbatasan fisik. Berdamai artinya terima fisikmu seperti itu memang terbatas tidak usah malu, tidak usah dilebih-lebihkan.
b. Berdamai dengan keterbatasan teman, artinya ada teman yang akan terima, ada teman yang tidak akan terima kamu, gara-gara kamu misalnya Minggu mau ke gereja kamu tidak bisa pergi dengan teman-teman, ada sebagian yang tidak menjadi temanmu dan terimalah itu tidak apa-apa.
c. Berdamai dengan keterbatasan kemampuan dan kesempatanmu.
Mazmur 139:16, "Mata-Mu melihat selagi aku bakal anak, dan dalam kitab-Mu semuanya tertulis hari-hari yang akan dibentuk, sebelum ada satu pun dari padanya." Firman Tuhan menegaskan kita dibentuk oleh Tuhan, dibuat oleh Tuhan, mata Tuhan melihat kita selagi kita bukan saja anak, waktu kita bakal anak belum menjadi anak. Firman Tuhan menegaskan Dialah yang menciptakan kita jadi Tuhan tidak membuat kesalahan. Mungkin tubuh kita tidak pas, mata kita, hidung kita, telinga kita tidak pas, mungkin juga kita tidak terlalu pas diterima teman-teman tapi ingat bahwa Tuhan tidak membuat kesalahan.
Mazmur 125:1, "Orang-orang yang percaya kepada Tuhan adalah seperti gunung Sion yang tidak goyang, yang tetap untuk selama-lamanya." Percayakan masa depanmu kepada Tuhan.
Senin, 03 Oktober 2011
Selasa, 27 September 2011
Minggu, 29 Mei 2011
Kamis, 21 April 2011
love story., by Fikria
I CRY AT YOUR GRAVE
Chirping sound of birds began to wake in the morning cold Andre on Sunday. After washing his face with cool water then he made a warm cup of coffee to accompany reading the morning daily newspaper editions week. As usual he is always looking for some work in a job field. Andre who is familiar not have a steady job, he's just a little writer for the daily morning. When he has or makes a good writing then would he send it to the editor of the daily morning and get wages according to his work.
At night sometimes week to visit her boyfriend Andre Imel Employees living in housing that is not far from his home. Imel family are indeed included, in contrast to Andre who live in simplicity. But parents do not forbid their relationship Imel. Although from a family that was, but Imel not choosy friends. Therefore, Andre is very loving and willing to do anything for her boyfriend is happy.
In the evening arrived, time for dinner together between them. But when the dinner took place, nose dripping gore Imel issue. At that time Andrew Imel worried but just saying if that's normal nosebleed. Hearing the concerns Andre reduced. One Sunday morning they were walking in the garden city but suddenly fainted Imel, then he was immediately taken Andrew to a nearby hospital. After review by a doctor, Imel sentenced to suffer brain cancer. It was advised by doctors to Imel, and said that his age will not be long anymore. "Doctor, I hope doctors do not tell this to my girlfriend who was waiting in front. Because I do not want him to be sad, "pleaded the doctor Imel.
After the doctor left the room, "how the Doctor, the state of my girlfriend?" Aske Andre.
"Oh ... you take it easy. Your girlfriend just fine. Only anemia or blood deficiency. Hence he is often tired and fainted, "The doctor answers on Andre.
"Then, what, Doctor?" Asked Irul more curious.
"Hm ... please let him rest for a few days and should not be disturbed once ya ..." advises doctors on Andre and went into the room.
The doctor requested that Imel steadfast and patient and a lot of praying for a miracle to come later and immediately asked to notify both parents about the disease that was in such misery. And also not to stop treatment to the brain cancer specialists.
Finally andre Imel drove back to his home by motorcycle. Up on the front porch, Imel said good night at Andre and told him to be careful on the road, so it is with Andre who gave the message that Imel plenty of rest.
On the evening after dinner with the family, Imel told that occur to her to her parents. Imel is the only child in the family, so naturally he was very loved by both parents. Hear what his son was delivered by both parents is very sad and worried, and immediately tried how can a speedy recovery for her son.
Imel has been a week since the treatment that is not known by Andre. Even when Andre phoned to ask about the circumstances, would have never picked up. sms from Andre was never returned. Until one day Imel called Andre to come to his house.
At home Imel, Andre welcome to come in and sit in the living room. Imel parents watched from the stairs. Imel also once told his parents to not give the disease to Andre until whenever.
With a face began to pale Imel asked Andre to listen to his words seriously. "Andre, I want you to stay away from me from now on ..." he said sadly.
"Why ,,,?" Andre asked curiously.
"I want to study abroad. My parents wanted me to live with someone who is successful. I hope you can try hard and come back to me with the success of your achievements ... "
Hearing that Andre feel upset with his situation. After Andre came home then Imel crying in the room and his parents were so sorry to see that happen to her child.
Arriving home, Andre was always moody and think of the sayings he has heard from Imel. It became a penyemangatnya after separation from Imel. He determined to try and be successful, after which he will be back to prove to parents Imel, if he is able to be successful.
Almost every day he was looking for a job, Daily Morning Newspaper coincidence that he send papers are often looking for people to become journalists stay. The start of his career to become a journalist, because of his persistent and satisfying then Andre was appointed managing editor in chief of the daily newspaper in the morning. But interest in writing did not fade, he began to make a novel about her life story that he raised a very interesting story. The novel that he has made and sells well-known across the country, even to Malaysia. The novel could also be read by Imel, he was glad Andre has started successfully. Now Andrew is no longer working at the daily morning as usual, now he has become famous and wealthy writer. However, what he has achieved now does not make him forget where he came from. He was not arrogant and always help people who cares.
On Sunday, as usual Andre went for a vacation home to his house in the village, but the weather is a bit cloudy, but do not be an obstacle because he brought the car. When his car passes in front of the house Imel, he only found the house was sealed and no longer inhabited. Incidentally Andre old house in the vicinity of the public cemetery, he saw both parents Imel walk away with a dull clothes and carrying a basket of flowers. He did not reply to what was once said to her first Imel. He would ask where both parents are. Feeling sorry for the parents Andrew Imel had forgotten their promise to not tell their children is real.
Imel Imel parents told me that brain cancer, and in fact he did not go to college out of the country but to go get treatment. He did not want to make Andre sad and she told him to keep the spirit of Andre and he was pleased with the success that has been Andre achieve.
"We have been trying to cure, all the property we are selling our children to be healed, but God willed the other," said Imel parents sadly.
After hearing what these parents have been delivered, Andre fell limp into silence. For a moment she imagined her smiling face Imel, imagine all the acts they had ever spent together. Then Andrew asks parents to drive her to the grave Imel Imel.
There pile of soil and tombstone bearing the name of Imelda Melanie. Andre looked at the photos on these graves, photos of smiling at him. Leaving a sad love story, make Andre tears fall for the many times, weeping for the departure of a lover he loves .***
Chirping sound of birds began to wake in the morning cold Andre on Sunday. After washing his face with cool water then he made a warm cup of coffee to accompany reading the morning daily newspaper editions week. As usual he is always looking for some work in a job field. Andre who is familiar not have a steady job, he's just a little writer for the daily morning. When he has or makes a good writing then would he send it to the editor of the daily morning and get wages according to his work.
At night sometimes week to visit her boyfriend Andre Imel Employees living in housing that is not far from his home. Imel family are indeed included, in contrast to Andre who live in simplicity. But parents do not forbid their relationship Imel. Although from a family that was, but Imel not choosy friends. Therefore, Andre is very loving and willing to do anything for her boyfriend is happy.
In the evening arrived, time for dinner together between them. But when the dinner took place, nose dripping gore Imel issue. At that time Andrew Imel worried but just saying if that's normal nosebleed. Hearing the concerns Andre reduced. One Sunday morning they were walking in the garden city but suddenly fainted Imel, then he was immediately taken Andrew to a nearby hospital. After review by a doctor, Imel sentenced to suffer brain cancer. It was advised by doctors to Imel, and said that his age will not be long anymore. "Doctor, I hope doctors do not tell this to my girlfriend who was waiting in front. Because I do not want him to be sad, "pleaded the doctor Imel.
After the doctor left the room, "how the Doctor, the state of my girlfriend?" Aske Andre.
"Oh ... you take it easy. Your girlfriend just fine. Only anemia or blood deficiency. Hence he is often tired and fainted, "The doctor answers on Andre.
"Then, what, Doctor?" Asked Irul more curious.
"Hm ... please let him rest for a few days and should not be disturbed once ya ..." advises doctors on Andre and went into the room.
The doctor requested that Imel steadfast and patient and a lot of praying for a miracle to come later and immediately asked to notify both parents about the disease that was in such misery. And also not to stop treatment to the brain cancer specialists.
Finally andre Imel drove back to his home by motorcycle. Up on the front porch, Imel said good night at Andre and told him to be careful on the road, so it is with Andre who gave the message that Imel plenty of rest.
On the evening after dinner with the family, Imel told that occur to her to her parents. Imel is the only child in the family, so naturally he was very loved by both parents. Hear what his son was delivered by both parents is very sad and worried, and immediately tried how can a speedy recovery for her son.
Imel has been a week since the treatment that is not known by Andre. Even when Andre phoned to ask about the circumstances, would have never picked up. sms from Andre was never returned. Until one day Imel called Andre to come to his house.
At home Imel, Andre welcome to come in and sit in the living room. Imel parents watched from the stairs. Imel also once told his parents to not give the disease to Andre until whenever.
With a face began to pale Imel asked Andre to listen to his words seriously. "Andre, I want you to stay away from me from now on ..." he said sadly.
"Why ,,,?" Andre asked curiously.
"I want to study abroad. My parents wanted me to live with someone who is successful. I hope you can try hard and come back to me with the success of your achievements ... "
Hearing that Andre feel upset with his situation. After Andre came home then Imel crying in the room and his parents were so sorry to see that happen to her child.
Arriving home, Andre was always moody and think of the sayings he has heard from Imel. It became a penyemangatnya after separation from Imel. He determined to try and be successful, after which he will be back to prove to parents Imel, if he is able to be successful.
Almost every day he was looking for a job, Daily Morning Newspaper coincidence that he send papers are often looking for people to become journalists stay. The start of his career to become a journalist, because of his persistent and satisfying then Andre was appointed managing editor in chief of the daily newspaper in the morning. But interest in writing did not fade, he began to make a novel about her life story that he raised a very interesting story. The novel that he has made and sells well-known across the country, even to Malaysia. The novel could also be read by Imel, he was glad Andre has started successfully. Now Andrew is no longer working at the daily morning as usual, now he has become famous and wealthy writer. However, what he has achieved now does not make him forget where he came from. He was not arrogant and always help people who cares.
On Sunday, as usual Andre went for a vacation home to his house in the village, but the weather is a bit cloudy, but do not be an obstacle because he brought the car. When his car passes in front of the house Imel, he only found the house was sealed and no longer inhabited. Incidentally Andre old house in the vicinity of the public cemetery, he saw both parents Imel walk away with a dull clothes and carrying a basket of flowers. He did not reply to what was once said to her first Imel. He would ask where both parents are. Feeling sorry for the parents Andrew Imel had forgotten their promise to not tell their children is real.
Imel Imel parents told me that brain cancer, and in fact he did not go to college out of the country but to go get treatment. He did not want to make Andre sad and she told him to keep the spirit of Andre and he was pleased with the success that has been Andre achieve.
"We have been trying to cure, all the property we are selling our children to be healed, but God willed the other," said Imel parents sadly.
After hearing what these parents have been delivered, Andre fell limp into silence. For a moment she imagined her smiling face Imel, imagine all the acts they had ever spent together. Then Andrew asks parents to drive her to the grave Imel Imel.
There pile of soil and tombstone bearing the name of Imelda Melanie. Andre looked at the photos on these graves, photos of smiling at him. Leaving a sad love story, make Andre tears fall for the many times, weeping for the departure of a lover he loves .***
Selasa, 19 April 2011
Rabu, 23 Februari 2011
english homework
Introduction
Betty:Excuse me,is your name farid?
Farid: Yes,iam Farid,what is your name?
Betty: My name is Varalina Betty,tou can call me Betty.
Farid: nice to meet you,Betty.
Betty: Nice to meet you too,Farid, by the way,where do you live?
Farid: i live at 30 jl.Jayanegara.and you?
Betty: i live in 10 jl.Surya ok...see you Farid?
Farid: See you too.
Promise
Niki : Can you promise me not to lie anymore!
Johan : yes .... I promise not to mombohingiku again
Niki : Can you promise me not to lie anymore!
Johan : yes .... I promise not to mombohingiku again
thank you, answer
Neni: Gina thanks for coming in my party yesterday
gina: You are welcome neni.saya very happy to come to your party
Neni: Gina thanks for coming in my party yesterday
gina: You are welcome neni.saya very happy to come to your party
Praise, answered
Sari: mother's cooking is the most delicious among all
Mother: thanks a lot sari
Sari: mother's cooking is the most delicious among all
Mother: thanks a lot sari
Confirmation
teacher: i want to tell you about confirmationteacher: Iwant to tell you about tomorrow's holiday on Monday due to the father or the mother of them know the teacher meeting.ask given to other friends.
student: .... ok sir, thanks for you inform
teacher: i want to tell you about confirmationteacher: Iwant to tell you about tomorrow's holiday on Monday due to the father or the mother of them know the teacher meeting.ask given to other friends.
student: .... ok sir, thanks for you inform
Rabu, 26 Januari 2011
Posting pendek pengen kenalan.
Ok,tementemen.Kenalkan namaku Fikria Norma Hanifah.kalian bisa panggil ako nyoma .
ako cewek yang januari ini baru enambelas taun.tanggal lahir di taun baru.
dikeluarga tercintahku ako sebagai anak pertama dari dua bersodara.
yya,gw emang punya adeg!adeg yang diberi nama oleh ayahku Ramadanisa Fikria I.
tapi biasa tag sebut moster kecil.biznya dya nyebeelin siih.
tapi tag apalah karena dya jugag hiudup gw lebih berwarna.
punya sodarasodara yang sayang ma aku sangat aku syukuri apalagi ditambah tementemen ku yang asiikasik ini.terimakasih ea tementemen uda mo jadi temene nyoma.hehehe.....
tentang ten six ku...
ok,all aku punya cerita tentang kelasku yang ramai ini...
di smago ako terdampar dikelas sepulu enam ini,.punya tementemen baru yang aneh bin ajibajib,.
ok,gw mo cerita tentang tementemenku disini mulai dari ......
*Dwi Tanti ,cewek 15taun ,feminin abiz tapi sayang kalo pakek rok itu loh buuuuuk,,,,,, agag gimanagitu!
*Tiara Niken P. cewek berambut panjang agag tomboy.,asiiik jugag kalo dajak bercanda.nyambung deh!
*Dewi kuraini .cewek berkerudung yang suka panggil ako tante ini ,.hanya satu kata "aneh" suka senyumsenyum sendiri,hehehehe.
*Dani d'cabizsangmentari,.cewek berkerudung .bandar pulsa buk!
*kymaya yuda M..cewek lutu deh pokoknya.sexsi pula.
*Syerly ardi cereliii. cewek imut,suka bikin kitakita ketwa garagra tingkatingkahnya itu loh!
*Aniz nurul Predibta.cewek ceriwis,yang ketawanya ttuu loh bikin dunia ngakak.
*Bimo satria Baja hitam.cowok aneh yang ceriwis.Bcuz kalo pageedikasii emaknya sarapan pisang ama pepaya.
*Rizky karunia tuhan.ini dia bapak peresidan ten six kita ,aneh,konyol,lutu,dan yang pasti suka digodagodain ma tementemen.
*Okta Syaiful Jamil. sukanya bilang "toooolllllllong!" lutu deh poopkoknya.
*Ratna siii nanananan. cewek ,konyol,karena tingkahtingkahnya yang biadab itu loh.tapi asik!
*Steven rozak.cwok ajaib alias pinter di tensix ini ,kadang aneh jugag suka nyanyi lagu anehaneh.
*Aupal sii aspal. no coment!
*Jpank setya tralalala. cowok yang suka asik sendiri dengan dunianya.nantae bangetddeh pokoknya ini anak dalem menghadapi hidup ini.
*Bima tiktik bunyi hujan. adekku yang lucu ni,saat ini lagi ga bisa senyum.sakit katanya.ayooo,, dong adek mna kekonyolanmu!
*Rinda iyiyiyi .cwek lutu deh pokoknya!kadang aneh jugag.hehehe damai deh buk!V
Intan permatayang mahal.cewek veminim.jangkung,asiikdiajag konyolkonyolan.
*Agungsii konghuchu. peranakan dari pawang hujan.yang suka ngelambain tangan ga jelas gitu.aneh deh,,, pokoknya!
*Yuliii su jhono. cowok yang pernah ketiduran waktu pelajaran dengan pose beruang mo makan orang!
*Imams suBakti's. dengan potongan rambut gaya afrika gitu dya merasa paling ganteng sendiri diten six ini.!
*Yucup alipin.cwok yang demen banet bubuk dikelas ini lutu jugag lohh......
*omSodokin.tag pernah menyerah dalam omongan (mbesosoL)
yang terakir nyoma sii pamapam paripam idtu aye cewek,eror,biadab,en konyoL.
sorri ea tementemen ga semua tag masukin,kalo semua bisabisaa jari gw akriting ini.
#cerita ini hanyalah karangan semata yang terkadang ada betulnaya jugag.
Sorry ea tementemen ako emang biadab kagak bilang dalam pembuatan semua ini.
Rabu, 19 Januari 2011
kembali...drop!
Tuhan,aku tak tau harus bagaimana lagi tuhan,,,
kau memberiku cobaan ini lagi.
dulu ako memang lebih semangat dalam menghadapi cobaan darimu,tp itu dulu.
sekarang tag seindah dulu tuhan,,,,
saat ini ako menghadapi rasa bimbang ini sendiri.seperti ako kehausan dipadang pasir.
ako harus mencari air,tapi aku tag tau harus mencarinya dimana?!.
saya percaya tuhan kalau kau memberiku cobaan seperti ini karna kau sayang sama ako.
tuhan, kirimkan malaikat untuk mendampingiku, menuntunku berjalan di tengah kegelapan ini,.
apa yang harus ako lakukan? saya resah,bimbang,kacau tag karuan.
kau memberiku cobaan ini lagi.
dulu ako memang lebih semangat dalam menghadapi cobaan darimu,tp itu dulu.
sekarang tag seindah dulu tuhan,,,,
saat ini ako menghadapi rasa bimbang ini sendiri.seperti ako kehausan dipadang pasir.
ako harus mencari air,tapi aku tag tau harus mencarinya dimana?!.
saya percaya tuhan kalau kau memberiku cobaan seperti ini karna kau sayang sama ako.
tuhan, kirimkan malaikat untuk mendampingiku, menuntunku berjalan di tengah kegelapan ini,.
apa yang harus ako lakukan? saya resah,bimbang,kacau tag karuan.
Sabtu, 08 Januari 2011
blog ku ....
hehehehek,,,,,,
Blog baru nii cuy..
betapa berat perjuangan saya dalam pembuatan blog ini,,,,,
garagara atda tugas jadi buat blog,mungkin kalo ga atda tugas beginian gw jugag ga tau yang nmanya dunia blog.
citacita saya ingin bikin blog saya ini dikenal orangorang,en semoga bisa bermanfaat bagi pembaca blog saya ni.
*2011 baru punya blog?
gaptek lo.. nyom!
EGP.masa bodo yang penting karang ana da poenya blog.
#balakbalik blagblog ae se reeek,jangan dartikan negatif Looo...... ea.
mohon bimbingan,arahan, ea tementemen tentang dunia blog ini........
*bilang aja minta di ajarin! hehehehehe, ea.
Blog baru nii cuy..
betapa berat perjuangan saya dalam pembuatan blog ini,,,,,
garagara atda tugas jadi buat blog,mungkin kalo ga atda tugas beginian gw jugag ga tau yang nmanya dunia blog.
citacita saya ingin bikin blog saya ini dikenal orangorang,en semoga bisa bermanfaat bagi pembaca blog saya ni.
*2011 baru punya blog?
gaptek lo.. nyom!
EGP.masa bodo yang penting karang ana da poenya blog.
#balakbalik blagblog ae se reeek,jangan dartikan negatif Looo...... ea.
mohon bimbingan,arahan, ea tementemen tentang dunia blog ini........
*bilang aja minta di ajarin! hehehehehe, ea.
B.inggris tugas
10 MEANING OF LOVE
1. Love is to give love rather than chains. Love also can not be imposed and sometimes are not even coming on accidentally. Love beautiful but the pain he left behind sometimes lasts longer than love itself. Limits of love and hate are also very thin but with a love of the world that we live feel lighter.
2. Love passionate mawaddah is the kind of love-passionate, burning and "nggemesi". People who have a love type mawaddah, the wish was always alone, reluctant to part and always wanted to quench the thirst of love. He wants to monopolize her love, and barely able to think other.
3.L ove is a feeling that given by God on a pair of human beings to each other .... (Love each other, have each other, meet each other, mutual understanding etc.). Love itself can not be enforced at all, love can only brjalan to-2 if the parties do "each other" is ... love can not start if they are selfish. Because in touch, we would want a couple more attention and it can only be from understanding partner.
4. Love mercy is the kind of love that a loving, gentle, ready to sacrifice, and ready to protect. People who have a love mercy of this kind more
attention to their beloved ones compared to yourself. For him what matters is the happiness of his beloved though he had to suffer. He was very excuse the lack of boyfriend and girlfriend always forgive mistakes. Included in the love of mercy is the love between blood-borne persons, especially parents love their children, and vice versa. From that then in the Qur'an, a relative called al Arham, dzawi al Arham, namely
people who have a pure relationship of love, which comes from the mother's affection Garba, called the womb (from the mercy of the word.) Since the fetus a child has been overwhelmed by the psychological atmosphere of love in one room called the womb.
Furthermore, among those who have blood relations are encouraged to always silaturrahim, or silaturrahmi means connecting cords of affection. Husband and wife are bound by love and mercy as well mawaddah usually faithful to each other physically and spiritually-world hereafter.
attention to their beloved ones compared to yourself. For him what matters is the happiness of his beloved though he had to suffer. He was very excuse the lack of boyfriend and girlfriend always forgive mistakes. Included in the love of mercy is the love between blood-borne persons, especially parents love their children, and vice versa. From that then in the Qur'an, a relative called al Arham, dzawi al Arham, namely
people who have a pure relationship of love, which comes from the mother's affection Garba, called the womb (from the mercy of the word.) Since the fetus a child has been overwhelmed by the psychological atmosphere of love in one room called the womb.
Furthermore, among those who have blood relations are encouraged to always silaturrahim, or silaturrahmi means connecting cords of affection. Husband and wife are bound by love and mercy as well mawaddah usually faithful to each other physically and spiritually-world hereafter.
5.Love kulfah. that is accompanied by feelings of love educating awareness to things that positive though difficult, such as parents who sent his son sweeping, cleaning the room itself, although there are helpers. This type of love is called when the Qur'an states that Allah does not burden a person except according to his ability, he yukallifullah nafsan illa wus `aha (Q / 2:286)
6. Love mail, is the kind of love is burning for a while, so suck up all the attention to other things tend to be less attention.
Love this type of mail in the Qur'an is mentioned in the context of polygamy in which when you're falling in love with a young (an tamilu kulla al mail), tend to ignore the old.
7. Love syauq (miss). Term is not from the Qur'an but from the traditions that interpret the Qur'an. In surat al `Ankabut paragraph 5 to say that anyone longing to meet Allah surely the time will come. Longing sentence was later revealed in the prayer from the Hadith narrated ma'tsur Ahmad; wa an nadzori as'aluka ladzzata wajhika wa ila ila as syauqa liqa'ika, I beg to feel the pleasure of looking at your face and the pleasure of longing to meet you. According to Ibn al Qayyim al Jawzi in the book Raudlat al Muhibbin wa Nuzhat al Musytaqin, Syauq (miss) is the odyssey heart to the lover (traveling al qalb ila al mahbub), and the raging fire of love in the hearts of the lovers, hurqat al mahabbah iltihab naruha qalb wa fi al muhibbi.
8. Love syaghaf. It is a very deep love, natural, original and intoxicating. People who develop type syaghaf love (qad syaghafaha Hubba) bias like a madman, forget self and barely aware of what is done. The Qur'an uses the term syaghaf when amazing but how loved Zulaikha, wife of the Egyptian authorities to the servant, Joseph.
9. Love shobwah, that love is blind, love can lead to behavior perverts without evasive. The Qur'an calls ni term as amazing but
how the Prophet Joseph pray for separated with Zulaiha that every day teasing (please put in jail only), because if not, over time Joseph was also slipping in inanity, illa wa `Anni kaidahunna tashrif ashbu ilaihinna account wa min al jahilin (Q/12: 33)
how the Prophet Joseph pray for separated with Zulaiha that every day teasing (please put in jail only), because if not, over time Joseph was also slipping in inanity, illa wa `Anni kaidahunna tashrif ashbu ilaihinna account wa min al jahilin (Q/12: 33)
10. Love ra'fah, namely a sense of deep love to beat the norms of truth, such as bad for kids so it does not have the heart to wake him for prayer, defending it even if wrong. The Qur'an calls this term when reminded that do not love ra `Fah cause people to not enforce the law of God, in this case the punishment for adulterers (Q/24: 2).
LIFE MOTTO
Try something new
Never be afraid to try, because everything started from trying things until you finally own that assesses whether you are capable in that field or not. In addition, with many tries you will be more tempered to be able to solve all kinds of problems you face in the field.
Never be afraid to try, because everything started from trying things until you finally own that assesses whether you are capable in that field or not. In addition, with many tries you will be more tempered to be able to solve all kinds of problems you face in the field.
Many learning
Start to open the books and other references related to the scope of your idea.
Start to open the books and other references related to the scope of your idea.
PRINCIPLES OF LIFE
First Principles
In Islamic thought is one of the experimental phenomenon or a process of formation of Muslim personal characteristics of Islam. Therefore, everything that has been achieved by a healthy mind and through the testing process is something that is acceptable from the point of view of Islam and given the assurance of trust to kesahannya. Prophet once said:
Wisdom (science), it is the right person Mu'min. So wherever he encountered, he is more entitled to it.
However, if the experimental ideas that are not pure anymore, life has been marred by a system that is not Islamic, then we are obliged to clean it first, and coloring them with Islamic values are clean, before we use it.
In Islamic thought is one of the experimental phenomenon or a process of formation of Muslim personal characteristics of Islam. Therefore, everything that has been achieved by a healthy mind and through the testing process is something that is acceptable from the point of view of Islam and given the assurance of trust to kesahannya. Prophet once said:
Wisdom (science), it is the right person Mu'min. So wherever he encountered, he is more entitled to it.
However, if the experimental ideas that are not pure anymore, life has been marred by a system that is not Islamic, then we are obliged to clean it first, and coloring them with Islamic values are clean, before we use it.
Second Principle
Islam is a perfect and complete system, because it covers the entire political system, social, economic and moral. Therefore, ignoring or forgetting part of the Islamic system means that impede travel throughout the system itself. So do not enforce political based on the pillars of Islam is an obstacle and a challenge to Islam.
All sectors of the life of the Muslims must always be based on the values and Islamic law, its economic, political, social, educational, military and other sectors. Islam is not justified to carry out the partial (of course as long as the conditions and capabilities enable it).
Whether you must believe in some of the Scripture (Torah) and the breach against some of the other? So there is no reward for those who do so from you, except disgrace in worldly life, and on the Day of Resurrection they will be returned to the most severe punishment. God is not unmindful of what ye do. (Qs.al-Baqarah: 85)
Anyone who does not punish according to what Allah revealed, they are infidels. (Qs.al-Maidah: 44)
Islam is a perfect and complete system, because it covers the entire political system, social, economic and moral. Therefore, ignoring or forgetting part of the Islamic system means that impede travel throughout the system itself. So do not enforce political based on the pillars of Islam is an obstacle and a challenge to Islam.
All sectors of the life of the Muslims must always be based on the values and Islamic law, its economic, political, social, educational, military and other sectors. Islam is not justified to carry out the partial (of course as long as the conditions and capabilities enable it).
Whether you must believe in some of the Scripture (Torah) and the breach against some of the other? So there is no reward for those who do so from you, except disgrace in worldly life, and on the Day of Resurrection they will be returned to the most severe punishment. God is not unmindful of what ye do. (Qs.al-Baqarah: 85)
Anyone who does not punish according to what Allah revealed, they are infidels. (Qs.al-Maidah: 44)
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